Sir, you said that a soul chooses a mother but what happens when the mother dies at child birth?
That is a soul experience. That is a complete soul experience. The soul is 100% aware, my child that, the mother will die at childbirth or when the child is 4 years old or 10 years old, and the soul decides that this death will help it to learn an important lesson. In this case, my child, the soul contract with the father is far more important than in other cases.
Sir, is this the same when the child is adopted for some reason?
When a child is adopted the soul decides to help one soul to learn its lesson and then move on to the souls it has contracted to spend its life with. So it takes birth through the mother for no real learning of its own, but more important is the lesson for the mother. When that has been fulfilled the soul moves on to that family where it has soul contracts.
Sir, once you said that every soul that comes here chooses its mother. But what about childless women? Is this because no soul wished to come to that person? Or is it a physical limitation?
No, my son. That soul opted not to experience motherhood and the physical limitations will only be a physical cause. But it is that soul’s decision not to experience this. There will be reasons for this. The commonest reason is when a soul in another incarnation, as a caretaker of children had not done its mission well; had probably abused the souls who were in its care. This causes a personal karmic link which this soul wishes to overcome. It opts to be childless, and the life partner will help this soul in its mission. The soul of the life partner may not initially have taken this decision as the soul has no personal karmic link to overcome. But when two souls come together in a relationship like this they do so for important reasons and in order to fulfill a larger important reason, the soul of the life partner will agree to support the decision of this childless woman. There may be another reason for this decision. Sometimes the soul is just tired of looking after children over and over and over and over again. And the soul wants a holiday. You will find that such women do not miss being mothers at all. They enjoy their state of being childless, they enjoy the sense of freedom that comes with this, and they enjoy the reduction in responsibility. These souls when they come over to our side are also caretakers of children who come over to our side and so when they take a physical embodiment they might just decide on a break.
Sir, but some of these souls adopt children.
Those are totally different decisions. When a child is born to one and is then adopted by another the child does not have very many karmic links with its biological mother. It takes birth to that mother in order to aid the mother to learn a greater lesson and then it moves on to the person with whom it has greater karmic links. In a situation likes this, my son, three souls are involved in this karmic decision.