Love
Would you like to talk about your love or the universal definition of love?
The universal definition.
We will talk of both. Jade Fire likes to joke. Let us talk of your love first.
It is complete and it is whole. And so is universal love. It is complete and it
is whole. But your love is complete in its conditioning. And the universal love
is complete in its expanse. Your love is whole, wholly towards Ego-self.
Universal love has
no Ego. Your love expects and gives nothing without some return! You have a
very good saying for your love. You say "love is give and take". Love is only
give. When there is the expectation of 'take', just as Ego has hidden 'Self'
from it with the veils
of conditioning, so also physical love is hidden from the vastness of the
universe by conditioning. Your love punishes. Your love makes another suffer.
Your love hurts and hurts another. Universal love has no Ego to hurt, knows no
Ego to inflict punishment and suffering upon. Your heart beats, swells and falls
with physical love. The Universe has no heart, it is all love. You limit your
love and place boundaries of family, and country, race and religion, caste and
colour. Universal love cannot exist within boundaries. It is limitless.
What this child wants to know is how you bring this universal love into your
daily lives. How do we break free from those chains that we have tied around
ourselves? The chains are not the chains of love. They are the chains of the
Ego. The simpler chains to cut are the veils of the 5 senses. The veils of
conditioning are very, very strong. In order to break those chains there must be
a willingness to die. There
must be a willingness to cause your ‘death’ with your own free-will. It is much
simpler to take a knife and stab it within you, than it is to separate the ego
and kill it. As long as Ego IS, Love is not. The two cannot co-exist in one
space.
But Ego is essential, as we have often told you. And there is the dilemma. How
can you kill that which is essential - you ask, must I choose always between Ego
and love? Let your limits of Ego widen. Let them expand, so that within Ego
there is not only one being, but all. It is difficult to kill all at once. You
must first makes its veils thin by stretching them further and further and
further. And then one day the skin of this Ego will stretch so far and become so
thin that it will part on its own.
How do you 'expand' your Ego? I can hear 'will that not make me even more
egoistic'? We are not asking you to become more arrogant and vain and boastful.
Every word and thought and action that you experience from the outside and every
word and thought and action that you transmit to the outside must have
boundaries that are very, very far. Try them slowly. Let the boundary first
move from one to family. From family to all those that you consider friend. From
friend to all those that you know, however briefly. From acquaintance to
stranger that you meet. And from stranger that you meet to stranger that you
never meet. How does one do this? You must be aware that every word and every
thought and every action of yours is merely energy and that this energy must
permeate into the environment around you. Let this be your purpose: First, let
my word and action and thought not harm my family. Then it 'expands'. Let my
word, my action and thought not harm those whom I call friends. Then it
'expands'. Let my word, my action, my thought not harm those whom I know,
however briefly. Then it moves farther. Let my word, my action, my
thought not harm a stranger that I meet. Let my word, my action, my thought not
harm all those who are in this embodiment, strangers to me but those who I know
are all a part of me. And its farthest expanse at which the Ego will tear - let
my word, my action, my thought harm no particle of the Universe.
It is not as difficult as some of you are thinking right now. Draw upon this
large well of selfishness that exists within each ego. Do you have a word or a
thought or an action that you know or that you did deliberately to cause harm to
you? You are working from that same Ego-Well and now draw further upon that
Ego-Well and expand it. Make use of the same Ego - that is essential children.
Draw upon that same Well of selfishness that you are conditioned to use. As the
Ego expands you will find, dear ones that Love resides not in your heart, it
resides within every cell of your physical being. Every cell of that which you
are. A large, large part of it. With your Ego will expand the experience of
universal love and when Ego tears its skin, the
butterfly of love will fly free. And on its wings will be the colours of the
universe. The butterfly seems to be small and just one and yet there is
something magical in its
wings. The entire Universe seems to contract and become just one atom covered
completely by the small gossamer wings of the butterfly.