Greetings of the Sanat Kumara. So you are learning how to create miracles. But do you know what is the corner stone of any miracle? It is not responsibility. It is not love. It is not communication. It is compromise. That is the cornerstone. Who do you compromise with? Do you compromise? When do you compromise? How do you compromise? What is the first step in reclaiming who you are? How can you reclaim only in restriction and limitation? When you reclaim who you are, you reclaim it in entirety. You therefore reclaim not only your limited self, you reclaim all that you are; you reclaim all selves that co-exist with you on this Earth. And that is compromise; where you promise to co-exist… not independently, not dependently, but co-dependently…. where you understand and you acknowledge, where you recognize and you follow through with that. When you make this promise to co-exist you are not only you but all parts of yourself that co-exist, so that you can reclaim in your entirety the greatness of who you are. Then excuses are not permitted by you. There is no time in your greatness for making excuses that make you small. There is no time for questioning. With this in mind ask now, "When have I ever compromised?"

Compromise is not a half baked solution where neither party is in harmony. It is not a half way street where you meet another. It is not an attempt to make yourself big and superior. It is not a striving for false humility. It is not a method to humiliate another. Compromise is becoming larger, greater than the largest perception of who you are. And in that large perception, to encompass all parts of your being that only seem differentiated and individuated, but are in perfect unison. Compromise is not resolving a difficulty with another separate from you. Compromise is merging with another who till that moment was separate in your perception. It is a merger. And that is compromise, and that is a cornerstone of a miracle.

So how do you compromise without feeling small? How do you compromise without feeling exploited? How do you compromise without feeling used and hurt? When you compromise you cannot feel any of this. It is when you concede defeat to your limitations that you feel exploited, used, hurt, humiliated. When you concede defeat to your limitations. For how can you feel exploited when in the moment of compromise you have become the universe that exists? How can you feel small? How can you feel humiliated? How can you feel ashamed? How can you feel used when you ARE. It is a form of greatness that you have not even recognized.

But when do you compromise thus? And why? That is important. To answer that you have to first question yourself. What is my purpose of this existence? And in any situation when your purpose of existence is at threat there is no giving in. There is a firm adherence to a path that you are on. But in all other inessentials, which seem so vital and significant to you, ask, "If I were to perceive the situation from another’s perspective will it threaten my purpose?" And when your purpose is not threatened, consideration of another’s perspective only leads to greatness. And in every situation ask this question.

And then make the question smaller. From situation to situation ask, "In this situation what is my purpose? What is my eventual goal that I wish to fulfill in this situation?" And then decide.

How many of you as parents say ‘no’ out of habit? How many of you as parents teach your children by example what is compromise. You teach them to be rigid. You teach them to say ‘no’ without reason. You teach them to exercise authority and ego. You teach them that might is right and then you insist that that very child compromise. Whose example does he have to follow? Not your own certainly. Why must it always be ‘no’? Why must it always be your way? What respect do you give to the child? To the child’s desires, wishes?

Now how do you turn around this situation? By asking what is my purpose for this child? Safety, certainly, progress, certainly, growth, certainly. Beyond this, and if these three are not threatened, what is your purpose in saying ‘no’? Is it only to exercise your authority to show who is ‘boss’? And in that what do you teach your child? That when you perceive another in power greater than your own, bow to it. And it is because your world has bowed to power, exercised it indiscriminately, that today your world is conditioned to be aggressive. And you have taught that to your children.

Start compromise at that level. How does it threaten a child’s growth, safety, his purpose for being? If he were to play an hour more than you have set as the limit, is that being rigid or are you looking at it from the point of view of being disciplined? Yes, certainly, if you can perceive in a child a continuous behavior, an action, a randomness, a thoughtlessness, a non-structuring, that is threatening to his very growth then you as a parent must play a role, but only then. And how many times have they reached this limit? The truth is in this gathering, not once, not once.

And you do this with every being in every situation. Ask yourself "in this situation what is my eventual purpose? What goal is to be fulfilled? And by consideration of another’s perspective in one or more areas, is my purpose being threatened?" And if not, then I ask, why the insistence upon your way. Is that not out of an ego sense of me versus you? How will you co-habitate on an Earth that is fast moving towards the physical energy of unity, where the energy of unity will be palpable, tangible, in all areas of life and living? How will you co-habitate then? In your very human body you experience the physical energy of unity. Does your finger survive separately from your hand and your hand survive separately from your torso, and your torso survive separately from your foot? You experience in every moment the physical energy of unity in your physical being, and yet there is no attempt made to emanate it outwards. And then you wish to learn miracles. Laughable.

Look within. How much of ego has still to be removed? In your daily existence, how many instances of blame occur versus responsibility? In every instance there is someone to blame. You are angry, there is someone to blame. You are hurt and someone is to blame. You are happy and someone gets the credit. Even in that you cannot accept responsibility.

Good evening, my beloveds. I ask you today, for a brief moment to forget humiliation, shame, guilt, judgment. I ask you to place it all behind you and to look within your heart, and before all gathered here to have the courage to tell each gathered here how your ego manifests itself. It does so in several ways. We are asking you to reveal only one, but to reveal aloud, publicly. Why? Is this an exercise to humiliate you? No. It is an exercise to accept public responsibility for a weakness you have acknowledged, that you have put to light. There is no one here to judge. There is only love to be given, because each has different manifestations of ego. And look for that manifestation which you know is most prevalent in you, which you know is the cause of the feeling of separateness from another. Will you do that for us today? We do not force anyone to do this only those who are willing. Do not look for those traits which will not make you feel very bad. In fact try to have the strength to admit the worst of the manifestation, not its most trivial form. In this is public acknowledgement of how big you are, not how ‘bad’ you are. (To Divyaa) So we will leave this exercise into your capable hands and we ask you to start it first.

Be light.